*Sigh* This started out as a nice, brief analogy. Then it grew to take into account more and more aspects of the disability community and it’s relation to the rest of society. Anyway, here it is. What do you think?
This is the disability community ...
100 people are packed into a leaking rowboat, with the water half an inch away from spilling over into the boat.
1/4 of them are trying to transfer to a couple of newer, safer-looking boats visible nearby.
Another 1/4 are trying to get ashore, which is further away, but it’s where all their friends and family are.
Another 1/4 are trying to get everyone else in the boat to sit still, out of fear the boat will capsize and drown everyone immediately.
The last 1/4 insist there’s nothing wrong with the boat at all that can’t be overcome with hard work and a positive mental attitude.
Ten of the people in the boat keep wondering aloud why another ten are even there, since they clearly don't really belong on the boat.
About 1/3 of everyone in the boat is wearing life vests, so their chosen responses to the situation are sincere, but mainly philosophical and less personally urgent. About half of the life vests actually have holes in them, but the wearers don’t realize it.
All around on the shore are spectators who are either encouraging the people in the boat ... offering sometimes helpful, sometimes contradictory, sometimes obvious advice ... or discussing among themselves which of the people in the boat are inspirational, and which are negative and counterproductive.
A few people are swimming out from the shore to help. Although they all mean well, about half of them will probably drown themselves, taking a boat passenger or two with them.