Tyrion Remembers Orson

I want to talk about a scene in this week’s “Game Of Thrones”, in which Tyrion Lannister, a “dwarf” sometimes known as “The Imp”, and his brother Jaime talk about their long ago cousin, Orson, who was “simple”, a “moron”:

I can't embed the video, but click here to watch the whole scene.

Tyrion: Do you remember cousin Orson? Orson Lannister?

Jaime: Of course! Wet nurse dropped him on his head, left him simple.

Tyrion: Simple?! Used to sit all day in the garden crushing beetles with a rock … “Kung, kung, kung, kung …”

Jaime: Kung, kung, kung!

Tyrion: Nothing made him happier.

Jaime: Nothing made you happier. You’d think being tormented from birth would give you some affinity for the afflicted.

Tyrion On the contrary! Laughing at another person’s misery is the only thing that made me feel like everyone else.

Wow. That line hit home.

Ideally, the common experience of disability would mean that people with disabilities all understand each other and treat each other with extra care, but the lure of acceptance is strong. In childhood and youth, especially, (but not only), there are rewards for pissing a little on people perceived to be less capable, less “normal" than you are, especially when you aren’t anything like “normal” yourself. I was certainly no model of disability solidarity in my youth, and I’ve failed at it more than once as an adult, too.

Tyrion goes on to explain how and why he spent so much time with Orson, trying to figure out why he sat squashing beetles all day, every day:

Tyrion: So, I went to Maester Valeric’s library. Turns out, far too much has been written about great men, and not nearly enough about morons. Doesn’t seem right!

There’s a lot more said in this monologue, and lots of meaning behind it, most of which has nothing to do with Orson’s or Tyrion’s disabilities. Of course, I was engrossed by the disability stuff itself, how Tyrion’s language is dismissive and cruel, yet at the same time showing clear evidence of a much deeper understanding and caring on his part for Orson. He may not have had quite the empathy we’d like to see, but he had curiosity, and seemed to approach Orson without biases. All jokes aside, Tyrion saw Orson as a person he wanted very much to understand … a sentiment I doubt anyone else in the Lannister clan shared.

Tyrion: And as I watched, I became more and more sure of it. There was something happening there. His face was like a page of a book written in a language I didn’t understand, but he wasn’t mindless, he had his reasons.

It seems like he isn’t saying much here, but really it’s fundamental, and it’s a bolder statement about the real depth and personhood of people with disabilities than even some close relatives and experts in the real world can manage. Tyrion suggests that it’s not that Orson was senseless, it’s that Tyrion had never been able to decode sense in him. In the context of the show, he’s saying the same about the world he lives in, which appears to be senselessly cruel … and may be in fact … but he, Tyrion believes that on some level it must make sense, if only he can figure it out.

I only hope he lives long enough.

The whole conversation stunned me, because it was so unexpected. I am even more curious now whether the author, George R. R. Martin, has specific reasons why he has made different disabilities such important elements in his stories.

Addendum:

I should have mentioned for the uninitiated that Jaime, too, is newly disabled, having had his right hand chopped off while in captivity. This is a pretty big issue for him since his main identity and "claim to fame" in the "Game Of Thrones" world was as possibly the best swordsman in Westeros. So in this scene, we have two brothers, each with a different disability, discussing a cousin who had yet a third different kind of disability. And arguably, they're not even really talking about disability. You just don't see that happening on any other TV show, or even many movies.